As I have been recovering from my own divorce and horrid betrayal and rejection. I have come to the conclusion that Fairy tales are bullsh*t. They have you believing in things that are not true. Love at first sight. Not true. You dont know anyone at first sight how can you love them? They dont tell us not to fall for the first prince or princess charming that comes our way. They dont tell us to be picky. They dont tell us that charm is fine for snakes, but fairly useless in humans. Sincerity is so much more useful and loving. I think we all need to get over our preconceive notions and realize that love, no matter what kind and who for...is hard, and takes dedication and character and respect. It is also beautiful and should be part of all of our lives. That is what we are all yearning for. For someone to love us unconditionally for whom we are, not what they would like us to become according to some story book. Love yourselves first. If you dont respect yourself no one else is going to. This is for Kaino. Love you honey. Mishka.
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