Depression Support Group
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Hey everyone.. looking for some advice.
I have this ex-girlfriend who i was in a relationship for 3 years, and she cheated on me and dumped me right before college. I lost 40 pounds in 3 months and she really put me through a melt down. I was in love.. i thought. For a while i just couldnt believe in love anymore... i kept straining of breat and straying away whenever i saw a face like hers...
All the troubled words and troubled mind-numbing moments i had with her.. i completly shelled away untill i felt nothin.
Last summer, we met, and kind of became friends again. It was refreshing... it felt like she was the only one i could "really" talk to.. if you know what i mean. we even start having sex again.. and starting having fealings for each other again.. but now i dont know, she doesnt want to talk about romantic fealings and kind of treats me badly when i try to express affection or love.
Now she wants to do drugs with me and experiment with sex with other people which i cant do... i dont want to have sex with anyone i dont love.
hmm the problem here is that she was a big part of my life and still is... she really is/was my best friend. We were partners in crime, we can have a conversation that doesnt make sense and we could understand each other with just the vibes we give off... But now, shes just using my love for her to her advantage to get what she wants... i dont think she cares about me anymore..
Should i just try to forget her and move on though? Shes just causing me more problems.. we dont have love anymore, we have something wierd.. anyone have an experience like this? Any advice would be gratefull...
I have this ex-girlfriend who i was in a relationship for 3 years, and she cheated on me and dumped me right before college. I lost 40 pounds in 3 months and she really put me through a melt down. I was in love.. i thought. For a while i just couldnt believe in love anymore... i kept straining of breat and straying away whenever i saw a face like hers...
All the troubled words and troubled mind-numbing moments i had with her.. i completly shelled away untill i felt nothin.
Last summer, we met, and kind of became friends again. It was refreshing... it felt like she was the only one i could "really" talk to.. if you know what i mean. we even start having sex again.. and starting having fealings for each other again.. but now i dont know, she doesnt want to talk about romantic fealings and kind of treats me badly when i try to express affection or love.
Now she wants to do drugs with me and experiment with sex with other people which i cant do... i dont want to have sex with anyone i dont love.
hmm the problem here is that she was a big part of my life and still is... she really is/was my best friend. We were partners in crime, we can have a conversation that doesnt make sense and we could understand each other with just the vibes we give off... But now, shes just using my love for her to her advantage to get what she wants... i dont think she cares about me anymore..
Should i just try to forget her and move on though? Shes just causing me more problems.. we dont have love anymore, we have something wierd.. anyone have an experience like this? Any advice would be gratefull...
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
i think for your sanity, and emotional safety, its best to just move on. take some "you" time.. re-evaluate what you love, like, and want in life. more women will always be out there. focus on you right now.
I have never been in this situation as of yet. But I wouldnt be able to be with someone I didnt care about. Nor would I want to be with someone who wants to be with others as well. Maybe I will just be alone forever cus of this, but I would rather than to not be involved in something that I know is not me.
you are soooooooooooooo more worth it!!!!