I just want everyone to know that we are not defined by our emotions, our feelings. These are not in our control. We are defined rather, by how we react to these emotions. It is so difficult to do the right thing when your feelings are raging for release, venting, revenge. I know. I have been there. What I have come to realize is that it is okay to be human. It is okay. I give you all permission. I give myself permission. What I do not give myself permission for however, is using my emotions as an excuse to cover bad behavior. I know this is hard. But keep fighting the good fight. Being here gives me the strength to do this. I hope you are all finding it here too. Love,, Michele.
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