love the idea. you have a big beautiful heart. i have a house full of family today but will be on and off and will try to help in any way i can!!

Thanks, Kittiez!

Star...you truly are a star. So kind and compassionate. I would love to help those who are feeling bad. I am on and off ds often.

Pixie- I'm glad you're here. :)

Star where else would I be hon? You need me you got me.

i am at my wits. been here before but not as fed up. i am physically tired and emotionally drained as well. i am trying to chill for now but i dont know if i can. i really am tired of fighting. im tired of being told im wrong all of the time. tired of being told i have bad motives or intentions. i tired of being blamed for other peolpe losing their tempers. i tired of being blamed for the hitting and the arguing. i think im just plain tired.

One thing I have noticed with so many who are extra sad at this time of year. Their focus is mainly on themselves and maybe how bad their family is or the people they loved who are no longer with them.
I would like to suggest they would feel better and have a happier holiday season if they could find some way to turn their energy toward finding and helping others have a good holiday season.
Do you have friends who have no family around, are their people at work who will be left alone with a t.v. dinner? Is there a homeless shelter where you can help cook and serve a meal? Is there an elderly person or couple near you who no longer has family to share the season with.
Bake cookies, make fudge, find some simple presents, share a meal. Do something for someone else. Do something to make their day brighter and more filled with love. In the process you might make a new friend or two, you will spend less time thinking of how unhappy you are and you will be doing what so many believe this season is about....giving to others.

i know its immature but i would at least be able to rest.

Lookeehere- I'm gonna start by saying again that I, personally, really care about you and want you to stay with us. You MUST take your mind off these thoughts. It's a chain reaction. Once you start thinking badly of yourself you'll only find more and more reasons, real or not, to feel bad. When that happens to me, and it does, often, I shut down for a little bit...by sleeping or watching a favorite show/movie for a while. Anything to make me not think. Then I start thinking about what's good about me. It can be really, really hard! If a bad thought pops up, I don't beat myself up over it, I just let it slide and think up the next good thought. Please try it. I'll give you a starter...for one you are an exceedingly kind person. I've seen your compassionate posts and I don't need to know you irl to notice that you have a heart of gold. :)

lookee, You have so much life left to live. I know that it gets tiring to feel bad day in and day out but you have to keep going. You owe it to yourself to see where the road takes you. Listen to star and try what she suggested. It is so easy to start looking at everything wrong in our lives and with us. Very easy to do. Try to break the cycle. Lean on us for strength to keep going.

I'm on board!!!! Two ears and one mouth; so I can listen twice as much as I talk.

count me in, whatever I can do to help

Nice thing to do Star9.

Nadareal, OfEire- Thank you. Welcome aboard!

Anglo- Thank you. It's not much, but if it helps even one person, that's enough for me. :)

i think nessa might need some help guys. on the who will cry thread xx