That sound really tough... leaving is hard, and I think the best thing your sister can have might be time away from his influence so she can sieve her thoughts and see more clearly to make her decisions.

"I really just don't get why she's still staying in the relationship and i don't know how to make her leave the relationship"

Humans have tried controlling others thinking since there were only 2 of us. Hasn't worked yet.

Your sister will have to make her own determination. Her thinking can be influenced by others but that would take a highly talented therapist in my opinion.

Hi- Thank you for sharing. I understand it’s hard when someone we loved is going through an abusive relationship.

One of my sisters was verbally abused by her husband and it was hard to see them living that way. My sister with her daughter left her husband because she’s scared that he might hurt them physically. They are living separately, they communicate regularly and their relationship is slowly getting better. My sister is hoping that their marriage will be restored eventually.

You can encourage your sister to go through counselling. I hope she can get the help she needs and she will be safe. My sister left her husband because of her fear that the verbal abuse might turn physical. Praying for your sister for safety and guidance. Please keep us posted. God bless.

thankyou so much, also i have tried to tell her to go to counselling because she told me her workplace offers free therapy, but she kept on saying theres no reason for her to go and that she is not mentally or has anything wrong with her, and i tried to tell her that going to therapy doesnt mean your weak, it only means you have blind spots and someone else who sees them can help you, but i guess she thinks therapy is for weak people

She has to want help. If she wants help most communities have an outreach program. They can help. Consider working with a social worker. They can help find available resources.