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So I really need some advice. I got a puppy last year, and I'm crazy about him. The last couple months he's been at my parents house because I was going through depression pretty bad and could barely take care of myself, let alone a dog too. Well, now I'm feeling better and I REALLY REALLY miss him. Trouble is, my dad is attached now, and is trying to make up reasons for me not to take him back, I don't know if he'll give him back. But I miss him so much, it seriously breaks my heart to not have him with me anymore. What should I do?
deleted_user
deleted_user
oh no:) shared custody? :)
deleted_user
deleted_user
Haha... well I know if I get him back my dad will always be number one to take care of him if I need him too... but who should have him most of the time? lol ;)
deleted_user
deleted_user
lol
ChiTownBear
ChiTownBear
If you think you want your dog back, and you can take care of him, you should go get him. having a pet around really does wonders for me. Many times, she keeps me going as I know I got to get up, take her out, she needs exercise etc. She gives me a reason to get out and do something where otherwise, I could care less and would probably not get out.

Not to mention, the unconiditional love they give. I have shared custody with my other dog and I miss him to death. He always laid on me no matter where I was sitting or sleeping, he would just plop on me.

So it is up to what you feel you can do, need and want right now.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Well honestly yeah, sometimes days are lonely and I can't think of anything to do so I watch tv and lay around, well if he was here I would go for a walk or a run or to the dog park, but its not as much fun alone.
ChiTownBear
ChiTownBear
I agree, not as much fun alone. BUT, not any fun if you dont go at all. :)
starfish
starfish
If you can talk it over with your dad, sit down and talk to him....take him out for coffee, or someplace besides his home where it is not "his turf" and he will not feel as threatened or defensive.

Explain to him, you understand he has grown attached to your dog, and remind him that you only wanted to have him there temporarily while you got better. If your dad loves you, he will understand and give the dog back to you. Then he can get his own dog to keep.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I suffer from major depression/bipolar type 2. The docs arent quite sure yet. One thing I can tell you is that my dog Daisy was there through all of my depressive episodes. I may not have gotten up and fed myself, but I did her. How long has your dog been with your dad? He must be pretty special for you and your dad to both want him. Our pets have a way of being good therapy for our depressions. So if you do get him back...dont let him go. Let him lay beside you n the couch and lick the tears away when you cry.
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