Depression Support Group

Depression is a real and debilitating condition that is often misunderstood by family and friends. Its meaning can range from a prolonged period of sadness to an actual mental illness with specific symptoms. Find and share experiences with others who are going through the same struggles.

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Do you wanna fit in?

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Hmm I was just thinking I'm not fitting in with my flatmates at all. I'm not fitting in with anyone. Never have probably never will. People comment that I'm either scary, miserable or just 'something off about me' someone said once. It pisses me off a little but after 21 years I can deal with it.

Just wondering do any of you worry about fitting in, do you want to? See I complain a lot about this but...I don't know I don't think i'd be the same. Is fitting in really all that important?
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I think it depends. I think once you are out of school isn't all that big of a deal to fit in. Everyone wants acceptance and that is all that fitting in is, is acceptance. Some people come from religions where they feel they don't fit in either, I know I do w/ mine.
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If you fear being alone, fitting in can take on a bigger dimension in your life than is necessary. My motto: this is me, take it or leave it.

People who want to be alone tend to do things to ensure that they don't fit in.
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No, rather be in front or on top.
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thats a good motto and I think you're right.
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I've already accepted that I don't really fit in anywhere.
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Same here. The only place i'm ever really comfortable is on this hill in this park back home. You can see the whole city. Nature accepts whomever as long as you respect her I think. Probably why i feel okay there.
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Hell all my daughters bf's say im scary..... hubby is ok ... he's 6'5" bout 270 & im the sacry 1????
Y does that sound strange???
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Star9, you are beautifully unique and need to be free.
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