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Im not sure what to right here but im just going to explain everything and see what happens!
After having my daughter 18 months ago my life has obviously changed dramatically...but im not sure if its for the good?? Me and her father are now seperated, he was very emotionaly abusive towards me and gave me no support which i think may of sunk me into post-natal depression...i look back now and it's all a blur all i can't think of is sadness and guilt. Anyways i started to scratch myself..and it got worse and worse to the point i was picking up knifes to do it but something inside of me said "dont do it" so i didn't for my daughters sake, but still carried on scratching myself till i bled. Well i tried to get help but the docs didn't really seem bothered, gave me some anti-depressants and told me to get out of the relationship...so i did. I didn't take my medication because i was too scared too. So thats that.
I eventually got my own place...ive found it a struggle being a single parent, no support, no money, trying to work too etc. But i just keep getting told to get on with it and my lifes not that bad which i agree with but its not that easy. So anyways i've been stuggling now for a long time, i have stopped scratching myself but because i have had abit of a break down in the last couple of weeks ive been having images of cutting myself but not doing it. i havnt' been out the house for days...i feel flat. Me and my recent boyfriend split up two days ago because i pushed him away...
I also found out i had an std a couple of weeks ago which has contributed. I dont know what to do...i dont have the energy anymore...my head hurts...i feel ill...I think i need help or do i think too much and is it all in my head?? please help
After having my daughter 18 months ago my life has obviously changed dramatically...but im not sure if its for the good?? Me and her father are now seperated, he was very emotionaly abusive towards me and gave me no support which i think may of sunk me into post-natal depression...i look back now and it's all a blur all i can't think of is sadness and guilt. Anyways i started to scratch myself..and it got worse and worse to the point i was picking up knifes to do it but something inside of me said "dont do it" so i didn't for my daughters sake, but still carried on scratching myself till i bled. Well i tried to get help but the docs didn't really seem bothered, gave me some anti-depressants and told me to get out of the relationship...so i did. I didn't take my medication because i was too scared too. So thats that.
I eventually got my own place...ive found it a struggle being a single parent, no support, no money, trying to work too etc. But i just keep getting told to get on with it and my lifes not that bad which i agree with but its not that easy. So anyways i've been stuggling now for a long time, i have stopped scratching myself but because i have had abit of a break down in the last couple of weeks ive been having images of cutting myself but not doing it. i havnt' been out the house for days...i feel flat. Me and my recent boyfriend split up two days ago because i pushed him away...
I also found out i had an std a couple of weeks ago which has contributed. I dont know what to do...i dont have the energy anymore...my head hurts...i feel ill...I think i need help or do i think too much and is it all in my head?? please help
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https://www.clear-institute.org/blog/is-scoliosis-hereditary/It states that scoliosis is 1/3 genetic and 2/3 environmental... it isn't passed directly down from your parents. Isn't what i described about my situation exactly these environmental factors that played a role in my scoliosis? Having had underweight and maybe poor nutrition, bad sitting positions and maybe lack of minerals... isn't...
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I’m trying to tell one of my friends about what’s been going on but all she says is to sleep more and think more positive thoughts. Any tipson how to help her understand?
If you think you may need help go to the the Dr and ask for some sessions with a counselor, even thinking you may need some help means you do, they can put you in touch with people who can support or help you in lots of ways. I'm sure it's not all in your head at all!
You've taken the first step by thinking about your needs I wish you all the luck in the world to feel better soon.
Its so nice to hear something positive for once and not just "get on with it" lol.
Thankyou again
You have an immense amount of stress in your life, and anyone in your shoes would need help to go through what your going through. I think finding a therapist who can really help you sort out your feelings and be a foundation for you would help keep you going right now. [Not that we wont be here for you, but its a different, more intense variety of support that we cant offer]
I do hope things get better for you. You are clearly a very strong person and have incredible will power and with that I believe you will pull through.
2. A single Mother's life is usually difficult with regard to time spent with children, finances, work, child care, etc etc. I am sorry you are having those difficulties, but they are pretty much to be expected.
3. Sounds like the beginning of SI disorder. This can be/get very serious and you need to talk to a professional about it. Be completely forthcoming about it and get it fixed.
4. If you are prescribed medication for such problems (or any health problem), TAKE IT.
5. The stress you are under can easily cause depression. Some depression is normal. Go here:
http://www.ofspirit.com/interviews-depression.htm
to determine if yours is normal or not. If not, get help.
6. If your boyfriend gave you an STD, you should avoid him, .. forever. I assume you have been effectively treated for it.
7. If you think you need help, pursue it .... definitely.
HUGS to you hon...