I am submitting this question to the Depression support group. I lost my boyfriend last month to suicide. I did not learn until it was too late how seriously depressed he was. I was with him a lot and just a phone call away at any other time. Yet he never opened up to me that he felt life was not worth going on. I keep wondering why it is he never let on to me? We were so close, and it hurts that he did not trust me enough to tell me what was going on in his life. I am wondering is there any members here who have or who are putting on a false front for the sake of their loved ones? Why do they do it? Do you ever hope that someone get a clue and ask you what is wrong? We cannot help them if we don't know the truth.
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