You know kaydeedid, it's been my assumption from the very first time you posted that you wish the best for everyone, but there comes a time when the posting of continuing drama has to come to an end. Yes, it's terribly unfortunate that members are being hurt by words spoken, or things being taken out of context. Name calling, bashing, arguing for the sake of arguing....it just gets worse and worse as the site grows.
Someone says something that another doesn't like, they tell their friends and then the witch hunt starts.
This site was created by DS to offer support to those suffering depression. When in a depressed state, people tend to lash out, vent, scream, rant and yes, anyone in the near vicinity is going to feel that wrath, whether it be intentional or not. We are ADULTS here dammit! Posting who said what to who accomplishes what??? A continuing witch hunt. If someone doesn't like what another posts, then delete the damned comment! No one is being forced to stare at a nasty comment that someone has sent to them. It's not embedded in their forehead! I'm sick to death of seeing these continuing rants of "he said, she said". There are so many new members here daily who don't deserve to read this crap! They came here to find help and re-assurance that they aren't the only ones going through such troubled times.
If you drama-seekers enjoy this kind of entertainment, then take it elsewhere or create your own website, but don't force others to continuously try and find a positive thread among all the bullshit. Every other thread is some sort of nastiness, aimed at certain individuals. Finger pointing and name calling should have ended in childhood.
And you wonder why so many members leave, and why so many don't post to threads anymore???? Re-read a few dozen of your past threads, then give yourself a nice pat on the back, because you, and many have only added fuel to the fire. I am so sick of this crap!!!!!!!