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A month ago I came in to contact with an old friend. When we started to catch up on old times, he started to approach me in a sexually manner. Over the internet we talked and he performed sexual acts on his webcam. I thought nothing of it. The next day we met up to talk and ended up kissing. Then one more day I wanted to meet up with him to break the communication off and he kissed me again and then masturbated in front of me.
I told my boyfriend of 5 years what happened because I felt it was right to be open and honest. Yet I regret telling him because life has been miserable. I dont know what to do. I have started back up on anti-depresants and am unable to deal with life.
We said we are going to get over it and make it work but everyday is a battle with him. I dont know how to fix this mess I have created. Please help me!!!!
I told my boyfriend of 5 years what happened because I felt it was right to be open and honest. Yet I regret telling him because life has been miserable. I dont know what to do. I have started back up on anti-depresants and am unable to deal with life.
We said we are going to get over it and make it work but everyday is a battle with him. I dont know how to fix this mess I have created. Please help me!!!!
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do what works for you. telling him is over now focus on the future. stay on your meds and maybe find a support group that may help you over this hump
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if he's willing to work on things with you and you really love him and want to be in the realtionship too, then work at it....keep working yourself and pursue your healing journey...
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Since you don't feel comfortable with what's going on, break it off. If he keeps up the sexual overtures despite your disapproval, it's simply harassment and tell him so.
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The only thing you can do is try to make it work, if you feel that is what you want to do. He is going to be difficult for awhile but if he loves you he will find away to forgive you. Just remember to stay on your medication and talk with anyone who is willing to listen. It will work out
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after the third day of cheating I stopped all communication with the other guy and have been focusing on my relationship. I just dont know how to get out of the mindset that I hate myself and can never make him happy.
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