After 12 years of marriage my husband and I have decided to divorce. Last year I went through a very bad stage of depression (Rx overdoses, hospitalizations, ECT procedures, and a stay at Rehab and then living with my parents till I got myself stabilized.) I came home to a furious husband who has done nothing but blame me for the financial mess we are in from my losing my job and not being employed for 5 months. He has told me that he was happier while I was gone. I have gotten full time employment now but have taken a pretty big cut in pay. The problem is that we have made this decision to part and he is doing nothing to get things going. We are going to have to sell the house because of the severe debts we have, and we kept his house as rental property when we got married and he kept everthing in his name only and I have no access to anything doing with that account and he has all of his payroll deposited to that account. I have to spend most of my pay on gas, my perscriptions, Dr.s visits, contribute to food in the house, some of the medical bills I incurred while down and out and then he'll throw some of the bills at me and tell me "these have to be paid". I have no money saved up for a deposit to leave or to hire an attorney, but my life here is totally misrable. I can barely stand to be around him. I feel so hurt and betrayed by him. All I can think about is how I once fell in love with this man and he once cared and loved me and now has no compassion, no caring, no love for me, only hurtful words. I just want out, BUT HOW??????
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