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Bleh

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I hate things right now. I fell inlove with someone, and they fell in love back, but then they become really sad and wanting to die. So apparently I'm not a good enough reason to live. Apparently she doesn't love me enough to care enough that I love her. So I'm useless. I am nothing. I am worthless if I'm not enough for her. I only want to make her happy. But she won't be and can't be. I try and try. And she is happy at times and I love it. But other times she is so sad I can't make her happy, and it really hurts me. I really just want to take something right now. But I know it would hurt her if I did. So I can't. I can't do anything but rant and sit here with this useless heart and body..
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If shes depressed then the reason why she is unhappy may not be your fault. And while you think you should be reason enough to live for depression doesnt work like that.
Talk to each other and try to be supportive. Please dont hurt yourself.
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you are not useless, it is just the circumstances going on arround you that make you feel this. Try to be supportive to your gf, she needs to know that although your down you can work it out together.XXX
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She does have depression. But I don't get why it doesn't work. I say the nicest things. And I try to be the best for her.

I can't say that I work. I'm a cutter, but I haven't for 3 weeks now. Trying to stop FOR her.
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Oh hun, I really feel for you, but unfortunately you have to accept that no matter how much love you give your GF has to learn to love herself. This is a bitch of an illness, supporting her and loving her as you are doing is more than enough. Don't be so harsh on yourself, because you're not useless you are a star xx
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I just wish I could make her happy even through the worst times she is going through. It doesn't help that I am alittle depressed myself, but I try to be positive when she is so maybe she'll get that positive and be happy to.
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TEHE,MurderOnT I use to feel that way when I was l5..keep living murderonT it gets better. If I had enough space to tell you what I was up to when I was l5, you would feel the same way when you got 46..your a caring and loving teen, don't lose that.
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I think getting that out and your guys feedback has helped ALOT. Thank you guys so much.
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i know kids hate being reminded that they are young. lol...but you ARE...and as said..it does get better.

and one thing i'd like u to think about..u can't pin YOUR happiness and WORTH on another person. that has to start with YOU. try to help her, yes..but u can't unless u take care of YOU 1st. :)
xoxo
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Me isn't important to me. I don't care for myself the least.
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oh but u MUST, darlin'...u MUST.
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You have to care about yourself to be strong enough to care about her.
Just remember that she has an illness and that she cannot help feeling crap, even when the sun is shining and the birds are singing. Depression sucks like that.
You're one cool guy xx
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