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I like and am concerned for a girl who is our neighbor. She will be 13 in August.
I have a 12 year old son.
She does not currently spend time here or interact with my son.
We have known her since we moved in...a little over 2 years ago.
She is a sweet girl, but is rather alone, I think. Her parents are older, her siblings are older. She has 3 older siblings, but they are in their 20s.
Obviously she is a "late in life surprise"
This has been confirmed by her Dad.....one day when they gave us a ride home from the grocery store. She is there by herself with her aging parents...her Mom is disabled, and her Dad works nonstop to support them.
I am thinking about offering my services as respite for them. (her parents)
I am younger, and I have raised a daughter. (now 20).
She hugs me every time she sees me, and has never offended me in any way. I know she is needing all of the love and support she can get. She goes to a nearby junior high, and tells me about it when she calls me.....not often, maybe a couple times a month.
All I want to do is be helpful and beneficial.
Should I contact the parents and offer? ...or is the whole idea stupid.
I have a 12 year old son.
She does not currently spend time here or interact with my son.
We have known her since we moved in...a little over 2 years ago.
She is a sweet girl, but is rather alone, I think. Her parents are older, her siblings are older. She has 3 older siblings, but they are in their 20s.
Obviously she is a "late in life surprise"
This has been confirmed by her Dad.....one day when they gave us a ride home from the grocery store. She is there by herself with her aging parents...her Mom is disabled, and her Dad works nonstop to support them.
I am thinking about offering my services as respite for them. (her parents)
I am younger, and I have raised a daughter. (now 20).
She hugs me every time she sees me, and has never offended me in any way. I know she is needing all of the love and support she can get. She goes to a nearby junior high, and tells me about it when she calls me.....not often, maybe a couple times a month.
All I want to do is be helpful and beneficial.
Should I contact the parents and offer? ...or is the whole idea stupid.
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Today is my 25th birthday, to my somewhat lack of surprise I can see already no one really seems to care. I've always been the kinda person to make sure that everyone I Care about feels appreciated and knew somebody had their back. I can count 4 times this year when I Went out of my way to make sure a "friend" felt good on their birthday, especially if they got left hanging. Its early in the...
I'm sure that they would welcome your help in any way.
My parents were 40 and 43 when they had me,I was the last of 7 children and I can tell you first hand its a very lonely way to grow up.
So Hats off to You for caring so much!
I think it will be ok to offer my support. .....
I needed the boost, thank you for making me feel ok to offer, instead of fearful. ((((((hugs))))))