Depression Support Group
Depression is a real and debilitating condition that is often misunderstood by family and friends. Its meaning can range from a prolonged period of sadness to an actual mental illness with specific symptoms. Find and share experiences with others who are going through the same struggles.
Why is it that I always attract bad people. I think they care but they obviously don't! I'm so incredibly sick of getting hurt and being so alone! I know good people exist in this world, I've seen them on here. Why is it that I never find these people in real life. I just want someone to talk to that cares and all I end up with is people who hurt me. What am I doing wrong and how do I change it?
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
The number one rule is: don't personalize someone's else's stuff.
You can take a step back sooner, I think. For example, if a person you are getting to know gossips, there is a good possibility that they will not ensure your privacy. Not that anyone should have any secrets, but I would be cautious in what I tell that person.
The other side is that long ago, my expectations of others were far higher than they should have been. I've since learned to check in with people before holding them to a standard that they haven't agreed to.
The question is why feel hurt over what someone else says or does?