I am watching my husband in a chronic grumpy state of constant drama and angry for petty crap often, he doesnt smile or laught too often and just seems pissed about something every damn day. I have ben with him for near 9 years and its a long time to listen to someone get mad. He finds reasons. also, is either negative or critical of the stepkids and I made a stand and said, accept us, love us this is as close to perfection as we are going to be...face that. He called me an asshole and went to bed. Im frustrated that relationship gets no attention or effort in his life, he doesn't even try. I wont leave him but I gave him some parenting books but he wont read them because he doesnt want to improve and be a better dad. His dad was grumpy and mean and now so is he. I hate the yelling. I dont like the criticism. I wont stand for it and jump in and defend the kids, when its just petty... I THINK he is just ANGRY and needs medication. What do you think? I say to him if you aren't happy do something to get happy. Dont blame everyone and everything around you.
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