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Guys, I really need your help, even if you'll tell me I am stupid or paranoid. But even this will make me feel better.

Yesterday when we came home with my three year old girl, standing near the door of our apartment, my daughter stated very clear "In two weeks this door will turn red" and the pen with the ball in her hand suddenly gave the red light. I asked her what did she mean, but she just repeated that the door will turn red in two weeks and went to play.

I am very scared, in my culture this stuff believed to be sign of murder or death, I am so scared that could not sleep whole night. Any suggestions to scared gal?
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I think you should try to talk to your daughter more. See what has made her think this.
deleted_user
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I am NOT trying to make any joke...

but perhaps your daughter was just thinking about all the christmas decoration around these days.
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Maybe she got it from watching something on T.V.?
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She does not tellme anything, today I asked her, she told me: I don't know. And the thing that I do not want to concentrate much of her attention on it but it bothers me a lot. And I never heard before anything like two weeks or any period of time, nor about the color of the door. We are Russian and she does not speak English perfectly, that what was surprizing. She does not usually speaks like this...
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Cristmas is good idea, she pick it from kindergarten, I guess I should ask there...
meandthebeast
meandthebeast
that would scare me also.. wish I could help but I dont have an answer.. wow, I dont think you need to be scared but I do not know about your culture
deleted_user
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I frankly not sure what to do....
my hubby told me ; enjoy your last two weeks, and then see. Idiot!!!!
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i too would have to agree with the christmas theme...it is everywhere
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That is a little scary. I suppose it may not be a bad omen. It could be a reminder to you to make sure you and your family are safe. Do you have working smoke detectors, wear you seat belts etc. It's just a sign to look closer at your life and protect those you love. Try not to look at it as a negative thing. I suppose if we all had a reason to stop and look a little closer we might catch something before anything dreadful happens.
deleted_user
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First, check with her school and see what they say, could be the explaination.

Not trying to scare you, but some people (meaning your daughter may be one of them) can just see things, just know things. I say that you mark the day, and stay away from the house that day or stay in all day and lock the doors with a baseball bat. I'm really not trying to scare you, but I believe in this sort of stuff. Please just be careful.
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I wouldn't think to much of it. Who know why

kids say the things they do. I'm thinking its about christmas too. Maybe she saw a door decorated in red at school or something.
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I wouldn't think to much of it. Who know why

kids say the things they do. I'm thinking its about christmas too. Maybe she saw a door decorated in red at school or something.
deleted_user
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The thing is that I do believe in the stuff and I need to be more careful. I do believe that some people feel or know. I do not want to think that my daughter one of them, but who knows. I am scared a lot...
May be I will go to sleep to the hotel with her or something...
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we used to have a red door. then one dau of our friends came over and said: a red door is where the devil lives. so he took some white color and painted it the very same day.....kindda weird. but for your situation: if your child does not want to talk about, let it be. there is nothing you can do except for hoping that it didnt mean anything. well, and pray....i hope nothing happends, i am sure you are gonna be alright
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gluzanna, if you are scared alot maybe this is tied to your depression. This is not a helthy way to live.
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