ugh men.. its good to be upfront with them i kudos to you. you will find someone strong enough to be with you for you.. and learn ways to help you through whether thats just holding you or giving you space when you ask for it.

i am severly depressed and i have pushed at hubby to make him leave.. thats not what i want and he knows that. he knows when i say i need space i mean it,, but also comes to cuddle when i say that i need it to feel secure..

i hoped i helped at least a little bit.. because of my depression my past boyfriends couldnt handle it.. my hubby is doing well but noones perfect we both know we made mistakes but we dont dwell on it..

take care
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sweethone15

I don\'t think you\'re meant to be alone. You just haven\'t found the right person for you. Don\'t worry, he\'s out there somewhere. Sometimes, it helps to work on YOU first before you can work on a relationship. I know you\'re suffering from what appears to be several disorders... but if you can work on you first, you\'ll be a happier and more secure person and that will go hand-in-hand in making a relationship with another person, work. Best of luck to you!

I have complex problems too. And after 16 + years of abstinence and no relationships, I have had to come to grips with the idea I may not ever find a \"special someone\" in my life. I have to be my own \"special someone\". And that is no easy task!! Funny thing is, unless you are able to do that, you tend not to attract the \"right\" kind of person. You have to also be the \"right\" kind of person. But God\'s grace is greater than all of my problems, so that is where I keep my focus. And if His plan for my life includes a mate, so be it. If not, I will still be loved, lovable, and God\'s child. I just don\'t want to fall in the same trap I did the first time.

Its hard to maintain relationships. They become exhausting sometimes. You never know if you can believe in the person you are with after so many disappointments. I\'m trying to see someone now. But he is originally from Miami, and just moved to Chicago. He\'s not sure how long he can handle it up here. Its cold, and he\'s away from his family and friends. I\'m trying to not get attached. I wish I could and feel safe. I keep thinking that maybe I\'m also meant to be a lone many times.

If he left you when you needed him the most then he has no business in your life. You deserve much better than that. I cannot believe my husband can put up with me but he does and loves everyone of my faults. Men like him are out there. Just keep remembering that and remember that you are special in every way.

It is no secret, I have been married 4 times and I am just 40. The men I had just were not strong enough to handle my problems. I have been there for them. I believe if you love someone that is what you should do. When I would have episodes they would say I am crazy and act scared and disgusted with me. I now have a husband that will be there no matter what I do or say. I know I have hurt him so many times and he just takes it. It does hurt his feelings and I feel bad about that. I try to apologize when I know what I have done. I do feel like also that I really shouldn\'t have to say I\'m sorry because it is not my fault I am this way. I say it because I want him to know that it wasn\'t me that was doing those hurtful things it is the illness. Hang in there. The right thing will come.

I think you are much better without him, actually. For him to say that bipolar disease does not exist, in my opinion, is just bizarre...and he sounds like he does not have any empathy in him. If your partner cannot put themselves in your shoes and vice versa, that what is being married about...loving and caring unconditionally is a key factor in marriage. We are all here for you.

You matter..and you come first...take care of you, and, love yourself more, and, in time your heart/mind will heal.

All the best to you.

sounds like a typical guy to me...promise you one thing and leave when you need them most! Hang in there as im sure there must be someone out there for you! I am in alot of ways like you as well, and my boyfriend does stick by me, even though i can tell he doesnt understand sometimes...he has come to accept me the way i am and offer support when im down. Take hart and keep looking!

omg.. so its always just another guy tangerine.. this isnt cops.. but i sense this guy wasnt for you wv.. there not all the same.. as some women may want you to believe..

lifes been down hill ever since i found out santa wasnt real

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