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Am I mad???

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I'm seriously considering applying for a job in the US to make a completely fresh start, millions (OK, thousands) of miles from home. I have no idea if I'd be allowed to work there as i have no real skills or qualifications, but it's so tempting to just up and go, make a new life away from all the shit here. It's terrifying even thinking about it, but sort of offers a way out at the same time, a hope of making a new life with new friends in a new country. Is this stupidly crazy???
rubyblue
rubyblue
Nope I actually did it, moved half way round the world. Its been tough, but I'm glad I'm here. I suppose you have to look at your motivations. And if you can't get into the USA, come to NZ, they love us Brits!!
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its not crazy, but you have to be sure you're doing it for the right reasons and not just running away as the problems can follow!!
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I think if you can do it give it a go, I'm the wrong person to advise you really, too much of a home body, the thought of moving thousands of miles away makes me want to hide under my duvet. lol
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No, its not stupid or crazy quilliano, Do It! you only live once, and what the heck, if whatever does'nt work out, then you will have your next big adventure to look forward too. I'm considering doing the same!
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You're only young once, guilliano. Follow your dreams. :o)
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Young??? I'm past it at 31!!!
rubyblue
rubyblue
hey i'm 37 and my BF is 45!!
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Don't think it's crazy at all, follow your dreams
ChiTownBear
ChiTownBear
Hey Guilli, nope not crazy at all. There are many things out here anyone can do for a job. Let me know if you are serious and what you already have had for a job. I will help all I can if you decide to do this!
ChiTownBear
ChiTownBear
30's are the new 20's ... 40's are the new 30's , havent you heard?
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Te He..and when you get 41? or do you plan or think you will never make it there? I'm 46....
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Chi, you got mail.
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My first thought is go for it....but then I think about my own situation. I changed job recently and hated my new job. The only thing that kept me sane was having some good old friends and family around me. What would I have been like if I was miles away from home? I guess it depends on the job. If you know it one you'll enjoy then sure....go for it but dont burn any bridges
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Umm just read the 31 comment. that means I'm past it too.
I'm 30, watch it....I'll have to reconsider our friendship..
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Women reach their peak in their 30's, men reach it late teens - early 20's
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