heres the problem am in a lesbian relationship of 8 years.my wife has a 3 year old neice who i just can't bear .ive tried taking to this child but i just cant her behaviour is of a spoilt brat she wants attention all the time.ok i hear you say thats probably normal of a 3 year old but am i abnormal for not liking her.she lives away so i only see her 3 to 4 times a year when we visit my wifes parents.but last year her parents came to stay with us bringing the neice with them i just couldnt cope my depression got bad.i had her around 24/7 for 4 days.now her parents are comming in march and ive told my wife i do not want them to bring her neice as i can't cope as expected this caused a row.i don't mind when we are at her parents cos the neice is only there a few hours but in my own home its different i like my own space .i feel awful for feeling like this ive had children of my own all boys but they never behaved like my wifes neice does im just not use to it.
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