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advise on helping my son

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My son is going through depression. He is not making good choices right now in his life. He is a full time college student trying to get his degree in biology. He also joined the Navy reserves. He chose two weekends ago not to do his reserve duty and didn't call or show up. I feel this was a bad decision. He keeps telling me that he just wants to be alone. I don't know what to do or say. Please help.
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Unfortunately there isn't much you can do, but just be there for him. I constantly crap out on things, because I just feel low or can't get out of bed.

I don't have any want to do anything.

Withdrawal is a common symptom of depression, I do it all of the time.
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I agree with the 'just be there for him' It will make a big difference to him just knowing that he has someone who understands.
Maybe gently try to persuade him to see a doctor so he can get proper help. He can always talk to us lot on here too x
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Depression is tough to deal with when it is our children suffering from it. My son does as well. Maybe your son feels overwhelmed. College requires many hours and lots of study. Just be there for him and love him. Let him know that he is supported and thought of.
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maybe u can talk him into seeing someone? doesn't the military get pretty decent health care?
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Yes, jules is right. As mothers of depressed children, we both know that all we can do is be there for them, and support them as much as we can. Have u suggested to him to talk to someone?
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