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advice please

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hey there people, im in a bad place. it feels like im always doing what i can to be with my man. i dont get to be with him much. last friday we where ment to get together but he went to a dinner pary instead. but when that got cancelled i went running to him. on saturday i cancelled with a friend to go and see him. yesterday i didnt go to my couisins birthday party so i could spend time with him cause on saturday he was going to a christmas party. around 8.30 he went to sleep. all week i had been feeling really sad and down. just this pit in my heart that wouldnt budge. then sitting there yesterday on my own, i started to cry. it was the last straw. i left. i drove around the corner and just cryed and cryed. i felt so alone. felt like i had no one to turn to. i even resorted to cutting. he's called a few times but i wont answer. he txt me and tells me he's sorry. i dont know what to do. i feel like shit. i feel like i need to stand up for myself. am i making any sense or am i just being a stupid little girl?.....
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take yorself up- throw the nice party, with no him.

go do something you love, wth no him.

if he calls-- answer him, and tell what are u doing.
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i feel so shit rite now, i dont feel motivated to do anything. this shit just adds to the shit way im feeling anyway. i couldnt even if i wanted to anyway. its all messed up.
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Sounds like you simply want to feel that intimacy that only a relationship can bring, which is completely normal. However, you can't live your life because of the relationship, it has to be integrated into the rest of your life, not the other way round.....
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makes sense. thats what im trying to do at the moment. sort myself out. do what i want to do for once in my life. kinda like soul searching. but it keeps feeling like im going backwards. it feels like the lights gone out from inside of me
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you are not alone. hugs
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