To start off, my fianc and I have been living with my cousin and her husband since the end of March. My cousin is Bipolar and can be really mean, especially when she's drinking. We were all having some drinks the other night and she started getting kind of nasty so I went downstairs. I ended up overhearing her talking about me and the things she was saying really hurt my feelings. She basically said that I do nothing but sleep all day and that I'm lazy, which is far from true. Yes, I do have my days when I feel really depressed and don't want to get out of bed, but most days, I force myself to get up. She was also saying that I do nothing to help around the house, when I take care of her dogs all day long when she's at work. She also judged the fact that I don't drive or have a job, due to my anxiety disorder. She thinks I need to just get over it. I took everything in me not to go upstairs and go off on her the other night. I think part of me was afraid to because when she gets mad, she can be really scary. I texted her yesterday and let her know that I heard the things she said and that she really hurt my feelings. I had no idea that she felt that way about me. She never responded to my text, but she's been super nice to me since that night. I'm still really bothered by it. Maybe I should just get over it, but my feelings get hurt really easily and it takes a while for me to let something like that go. I already feel like I'm constantly being judged by everyone, but I never thought she would ever talk about me like that. I guess you don't always know people as well as you think you do, even your own family. :(
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