Well here goes, pretty much I have low testosterone, so that equals low sperm count. I may be losing it, I want to be able to give my wife a child, but I can't...My mother in law says that "if you can ejaculate, you can impregnate because you have sperm." My wife also believes that, but I don't think that's the case, I think it's a bit more complex. I haven't actually tested it yet, but I'm afraid to because I know what my doctors had said before about my low testosterone (which I've been taking those infernal patches for) and the possibility that I wouldn't be able to have children. My wife and I haven't been having safe sex when we make love, and we've done that just about every day of our marriage, the surprising thing is, we always keep thinking her period will be missed because it seems to be a few days late, but then it hits. My stepmother says when you start getting active, periods become irregular, so that's probably it...I'm just really pissed with myself and I know I should get a sperm test, but I don't really want to hear what I am pretty sure I already know...why can't I give her a child? She has told me it's no problem for her, I'm happy about that, so I'm not worried at all about her leaving me because of it, thank god. However I'm still angry with myself...Why couldn't I be born without problems like these?!
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