People can be very mean for sure. It has to do with way too much fear and low self-esteem. That is not your concern though. There is a way for you to learn not to let the common folk rattle your cage. You cannot change them but you can change yourself. It might take a lot effort and time as it did with me. It might only take a few months with an honest, courageous, experienced therapist. It took two consecutive woman therapists for me and a very long time. This is easier said than done What other people think of you is really none of your business.
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