dont really know what to do about certain someone, he is a great friend been with methrough everything, called doctors for me, researched for me, picked up medications for me, cleaned my house when i cant walks my dogs, makes me breakfast, helps with work, listens to cryng, tries to repair my relatonship with my family for me, anything and everything.....heres the problem, hes in love with me and i love him but im not in love with him as a matter of fact all i feel is guilt that i cant love him, he calls me everyday, and wants to come over every weekend, i made it clear to him from day one i only wanted tobe friends, he said ok he will try to make the conversion, he comes over every weekend, sleeps over, sometimes, doesnt leave till thursday, i cant say no, i feel bad and dont want to hurt him hes done so much for me, he says he's trying even went out on two dates with a girl, yet hes at my house now, im tired of feeling so trapped and guilty and have even thought of just marrying him to make him happy, i mean im 36, mentally ill who else would put up with it? ive had very bad relatonships hes the only man who has ever treated me kindly. what do i do? p.s. everyone says i should be with him even family, i just dont know why i dont feel it. please help
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