Right now you take a deep breath and have a seat. You can pm me if you want.....

babes im so sorry. what do you want to do?
have you talked to your family? what do they say
hugs xx

I'm so sorry hun, give it a moment to sink in and think this through. It's such a hard decision, but hang in there.

1) Can you afford to go home?
2) Is it likely he will pass away?

Sorry if these are hard questions.

im sorry fror your loss.
just take things day by day, try not to rush into anything too soon, as ytou will feel fragile for a while.
Take care

I'm sorry to hear your sad news, it's a difficult time for you. Talk to your family, see what they say, and also to someone in the University, such as a pastoral care lecturer, if they have one there. My prayers are with you.

Hun im so sorry u can PM me if u want ??
Hugs xx

Ive talked to my family. My father isnt having a funeral for his mother... (he is screwed up at the moment..how can you NOT have a funeral for your mother for christs sake!)... and my mother is in denial about her father. She seems to think everything is fine despite my sister telling me our grandfather is not doing well at all. I cant cope with losing two grandparents and not being there to see them. Sleepy no i dont have the money but my sister will pay for me to come home cause she knows the shit. And i dont know whether its likely he'll die. Thats whats getting me. Do I go back? shit. what the hell do i do.

I think you should talk to your sister if she is the one being most honest with you.

If it were me.... I'd probably go.

When my Dad was sick people told me not to go home because he would get better.

I went anyway. Im glad I did.

He didnt die until later but Im still glad I went.

Do what you need to in your heart. If you talk to your UNI they should give you time off.

Dont know hunny :( I honestly dont know what I would do in that situation but sending you hugs x

Im completely shitted right now, i dont know what to do.

thanks all.