BIG HUGS

is this the first bad fight you've had or been goin on a while?

wow..verbal abuse. not cool.

sorry hugs

Sweetie, if you are in an abusive situation, then leave. That is the best thing you can do before the baby is born. There are shelters that will take you and the kids (others will probably know more about that), but no one deserves to be talked to like that.

Peaceful, healing hugs--Laura

no, this had been going on for a while. Ever since my rape, and everything else, he's just another person. I can't deal with it!!!

I would leave. But a couple drinks and in no shape to be driving. It's just like me to be thinking about that, he would be in the car in no time, getting a DUI. I know better than to do that. THE JERK!!!!!! He doesn't love me. He hates me. It wasn't my fault this crap happened. so why is he taking it out on me. I'm already suicidal. Maybe he wants me to do it...I don't know!!! Jerk!!!!!!!

It's funny. I have been away from here for a week cause I've been sooooo down. I only write on here during the day when he's away so I won't make him mad for being away from him. But why, he doesn't pay any attention to me anyway, so why bother?? I don't know, just a thought!

Thanks guys! I think I'll just go. Take my chances! I hope I will talk again soon! If not, you are wonderful people, and I love you guys!!!!!!!xoxoxoxoox

I feel bad for you. Your husband is verbally abusive & so is mine. I feel your pain & live it also.

I'm sooooo sorry jazz, to hear that. It's not fun! It makes a bad situation even worse. Just when you think things couldn't get worse, here it comes, and from what is suppose to be your support system.......CRAP!!!!

Maybe what you're seeing is your hubby's frustration at not being able to help you since the rape? The reason I say that is because of something the mental health team told me when I was telling them how my BF was doing the same sort of thing and this is what they told me......

Males tend to be "the fixer" in the psychological sense. If there's a problem, the males goes into "fix it" mode, but in cases like your rape (and I apologise if I get details wrong cos I don't know the specifics) it's not something that he can fix and unfortunately it's quite common for frustrated ppl to lash out at those who are closest to them, but the frustration is not necessarily aimed at the person they are lashing out at although it may appear that way.

Food for thought maybe.....

Thanks Melbaby..good info. Yeah that's what i've heard, but i know my hubby. He just hates me..i can tell

*hugs*