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hi everyone my name is robin i am new to this group...me and my hubby to be have lost five babies in six months...one was from our first pregnancy which was twin(most ppl think it was just one baby)..and the other was from our second loss which was a set of triplets...i just cant seem to move on even though i know it takes time..but i dont want to do anything...i want to sleep but cant...i want to eat but can seem to keep it down...i want to just cry but cant find the tears inside of me...i feel so lost and i know that if not for my scott and my boys i would just get into bed and not get back out of it again...please someone help me to know that i am not going crazy and that it is ok for me to feel this way...
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Have you seen a doctor hun?You may be depressed and need some meds to balance you out.
Hug to you and so sorry for your lossxxxxxxx
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it's ok to feel like this. my sister inlaw had a miss carage and so was so upset and her sister has had 2 miss carages so far and she's sooo upset. If you wanna cry go ahead. your aloud it's upesetting. Check with your doctor why this is happening to your babies. maby your laking a vitamin?
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You are not going crazy, your shock and grief must be huge. There is the most beautiful website called SANDS it is for people who have lost their beloved babies. If you go there, you will walk amongst the angels. I found peace there. I hope you might too. xxx
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Welcome to Daily Strength, Robin.


I am so sorry for all of your losses....I lost my oldest son a little over two years ago.

I can't imagine what it is like to lose so many so soon...

You are not going crazy. Grief kind of takes on a life of its own, and everyone processes it differently and at a different pace.

If you are getting overwhelmed or "stuck" though, you might need some meds and/or therapy to help you through it all.

There is also a "bereavement" community here at DS, if you haven't found it already, and a "formomsonly" profile for moms who have lost children...it is a profile, like a person on here, but it is actually a group.
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hun it is normal to feel like this esp if u had so many losses in ur life...i agree tho that u should go see a doctor,,..maybe go and see a councilour also...the two combined might be able to get u thru another day..im here if u need to talk tho
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i can't even begin to relate this situation but i am so sorry you are hurting so bad. several ppl i love have been through this a few times each as well and some how kept going and trying till they got healthy happy kids...but i know that is hard as hell to do. please talk to your dr or a councilor or someone. i wish i could take some of it away from you and do more to help you.
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p.s. you are not crazy....you are hurting and it is normal to feel that pain...just need to find a way to help yourself through it.
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i do know that pain...and it's the worst thing i ever felt in my life. there are no words i can say to make the loss any less, but you should definitely see a doctor about the depression. there are meds you can take even when trying to conceive. you are in my thoughts...*hug*
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I'm so sorry for the losses you've had to endure. No, you're not going crazy, you're going through grief. Your losses must have been horrible to go through. You'll find alot of support here at DS from many caring and loving people. Best wishes:O)
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thank you so much everyone for the support..it is nice to know i am not nutts...but i still feel like there is something wrong with me to be this down....thank you so much
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the only thing that is wrong is that you have had a really rough time and are reeling from the blows.it is normal and you will find a way back to happiness. hugs!!!!!
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