Hey.I really need some help with my Mother because it has been since around this christmas that she has really been jumping down my throat and dont really do anything wrong.I have a brother and a sister and I get a constant feeling from her that she loves them 20 times more than me.I am just always left out.She always compares me to my friends and her friends sons but shedoesnt seem to understand tha it is not that easy to keep up with the things that she wants me to do.I tried askin her to make a list but shebasically refused.So now it is like everyday I am getting in trouble and screamed at and she maes me feel really bad and depressed from when I wake up to when I go to sleep.For example:It snowed last Night and I shoveled this morning but her car was all Iced up.I could esily get all of the ice off of the windshield but ice was still frozen on the hood of her car and it froze the wipers to the hoo in a sheet of ice.I couldnt use the ice scrapper on that part of the car for fear it would scratch it.So Itried the hot water method.After seeing me fail about 10 or 15 tims she said it is ok.Then she left to go to the store and then came back in Blind Furry and started yelling about how I always do thing half assed or never do them at all and then she starts comparing me to my best friend Mike whos mom always talks to my mom about how he is the new man of the house.He does all the small things like take out the trash and wash dishes.I do those things and still much more harder things but she will never accnoledge it.Can someone please tell me how to deal with her?
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