So I finally got to speak to my husband this past weekend. We've been separated for a few weeks but finally got the strength to face him and see what he wants to do. He's confused and unhappy with every aspect of his life. He said he doesn't care about himself or anything except that fact that he's hurting me. He said he doesn't want any help and doesn't care what happens to him. He said he wasn't having any suicidal thoughts and that he wouldn't do anything stupid. I'm just concerned that he's going to continue this spiral downward and get worse causing himself more pain and anguish. I don't want him to hurt himself or risk his job or the life we've built. Any advice? I'm trying so hard to make any effort and reaching out to his family and friends to help even though he's shut them out.
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