I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you allow yourself the time to grieve properly. As to what kind of advice you are looking for - you don't really specify.

I know that I did not specify but I really dont know that to do. How can i deal with all that is going on I thought that my wife was going to be ther buy my side but in all reality i have been the only one handaling I have my Wife to worry about and Both of my boys now that she has been comited it seaims a little less stressful at home I dont have to be afraid to walk in to my house any more afrais on if I am going to find my wife dead and when she was home she was just so depressed and ther was nothing that i could do to help her and she is also a cutter I do miss her but in a way I dont dont get me wrong I LOVE HER to death but i cant handel the fear of having to barry another part of my Heart. I am verry confused about well not that I just dont understand how someone would put every body that loves them through pain by trying to kill them self it is selfish.

You don't mention if you believe whether or not she killed your 3 year old son. Maybe thats not something you want to consider at this point. Your wife is having an emotional and mental breakdown right now. She can't see past the pain of losing your son. Both your sons, actually. Have you tried talking to your wife? Have you tried telling her how much you need her and need her to get better? That no matter what - you two will pull through this?

I can't imagine what you are going through. You might want to join other support groups so that you know you are not alone. Good luck. Please try to remember that you WILL pull through this.

i can't imagine what you're going through. You need to get in touch with a lawyer straight away and see what they can do to help you through this. Also check locally with bereavement counsellors, can your Doctor refer you? Please take care.

i can't imagine what you're going through. You need to get in touch with a lawyer straight away and see what they can do to help you through this. Also check locally with bereavement counsellors, can your Doctor refer you? Please take care.

This is for RashCarer I already have a lawer & I am going to see a counsler/therapist tommaro. This is to add on my situation Ther is a on going investigation involving the FBI & CID on this hole thing as for every ones else question on whetther my wife did it or not I pesonoly dont belive that she did any thing to my son but i was not ther when he fell down 14 steps the only pepolethat were the were My wife my 3 yr old son and my 4 month old son and GOD i love my wife and i belive in what she has told. No it isup to the courts to determin wether she did it or did not do it ther is no need to have that thougt about my wife and be prejudgmental and find out I was wrong and then in turn loose anouther part of my heart over mear speculation. But I do hope that she is Not Guilty.