I'm sure my story is no different from many others on here. I just feel so alone and confused and lost and hurt. My boyfriend of 4 1/2 years broke up with me in August due to his depression and I have found it to be so debilitating, I know I shouldn't. I have really been struggling because whenever we talk or are together we act like we are still a couple, yet he tells me that there are no signs in the very near future we will be a couple. I love the feelings I get for the short bit of time, but then when he leaves it reverts back to me just being an ex girlfriend who will get maybe a few texts throughout that day that include pet names and "I love you's". I know he does love me, that isn't the question, I guess my question is whether or not I should be doing more to cut off contact and let go. He loves and cares about me so much and is willing to do whatever so that I can cope, but I'm worried if I just cut off contact he might resent me because I wasn't there for him. I don't want to let go or move on, but as I am right now, things as simple as waking up and getting through a work day are very hard. I love him so much, I don't understand why this happens .
My MIL had a stroke, but the stars really were in alignment for her:background: the DIL and son in this story live in San Diego, we live in Los AngelesI tend to start my stop watch when "things" happen1) She was talking on the phone to a DIL, and DIL noticed the slurred speech.2) DIL told her husband to call my wife, then me (wife was at the gym, and not reachable)3) I was not at the gym due to...
My dad's health is really bad. When he starts running a fever he refuses to follow doctors instructions to immediately get medical attention. This would prevent him from having to go into the hospital. So EVERY TIME he has a cold, he ends up in the hospital. Since he is doing it to himself, if he goes this time I am not going to visit him.