My grandfather has always been a very social person, he was the head of our church so you can imagine the socializing he did. Recently he not only is becoming argumentative when before he just would go with the flow but he is also refusing to go places. My mom and aunts are afraid of leaving him home by himself for fear he will pick that moment to start wandering (thankfully that isn't an issue,yet). He doesn't want to go anywhere with my grandmother including church. I don't know if we should just do what he wants or try to put him into situations with other people. I just don't know if it is healthy to allow him to isolate himself. He lives with my grandmother and family comes over every day including my aunt who lives next door but is this enough?
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