Hi! I am new here and have a situation with a nice guy friend. We have known eachother for almost 9 yrs. He has been a great support through marital problems and my divorce. I have been single now for almost two years and I am wondering if he is ever going to make a move. It is something that even if it is just friendship I am ok with that. I am very attracted to him though. I see him in a public place where he works and I am a member where he works. He is always asking me qustions about my personal life and just about a month ago he thought I was still in love with my ex. I was like what! Absolutely not! We went out to lunch in May and we celebrated both our bdays, I actually treated him for his. that was my gift to him. IT was a new italian rest. Anyways, he lives with a girl, but never really mentions her to me over the years. He has been with her for 5 yrs. I asked him if he is going to marry her and he said no. He is a modern guy. Whatever that means. Anyways he said he had to get back to work and said don't you have to get to your kids? Well wouldn't you know my coffee came a second before that. I was getting fatigued and needed a bolt of caffeine. He said oh well I guess I am chopped liver. I am like no you are not! He then came over and gave me a long nice hug. I was like dam he feels great! He wanted me to walk out with him but I had not even drank my coffee. He is like don't you need to get going again? I am like I have some time. I hope he did not TAKE THAT AS i AM NOT INTERESTED.
I was with my ex since 19 and I am so clueless sometimes. I have heard people from his work say he has feelings for me. How do i know?