Hello everyone, I lost my dad December 2007, of lung cancer, and I was in the progess of starting my wedding planning for this year. This is something that, I want to do, however, to think that he will not walk me down the aisle, or be there it makes me want to just say the heck with it. I haev friends and family who say well you can do it and honor him, Yea that's great, but it;s just soo fresh. Can someone tell me is it bad to just want to have a small wedding or maybe just go away and do it, and have a party after. I can not imagine my dad not there. It hurts too bad. Thanks so much. May God bless everyone on this site.
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