I have been with my boyfriend for about 2 years now, he has crohns, and i love him with all my heart. however things are becoming more real now as we talk about marriage and the future. My problem is i'm starting to wonder if i can really deal with this for the rest of my life. its already effected me so much, with the medications, the times he's sick and can't do things, etc. I feel like a piece of crap when i think about breaking up with this as it's not something he can control, but i also feel like i have to worry about me. he's been married before and the crohns was a big reason for the split, how i can i do that to him again. he's the best person i've ever known with a heart as big as can be, and i can't see giving up the good for this, but i'm really fearful of what my future entails. medical bills, death, having to carry us if he can't work, etc???? please help me and give me some advice.
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