I have written on this site many times. The reason is it helps me to get other members advice on my problems. I just feel like I am going to go nuts soon. I know there r others with more difficult problems but for me I am over-whelmed. I will say very briefly because I have wrote before my problems. I don't won't to keep repeating myself because it does get old. But briefly....I have had a very bad,painful flair from UC. I was out of work for 6 months and in the hospital 4 times....while I was in the hospital another family member broke his neck, Both my Mom and Dad were in and out of the hospital via ambulance, my grand-daughter had surgery, my youngest daughter has been in bed/home for 4 yrs., my husband is a diabetic, blood clots, strokes and breast surgery six weeks ago. He had to have 2 surgeries because after surgery his incision got infected. He was just released from that surgery 2 weeks ago. He had visiting nurses for six weeks. Just went it was healed he has another min-stroke and lost some of his site in his right eye. He wouldn't go to the ER for 2 weeks. Finally yesterday we went to his eye dr. who sent us to the hospital right away. We spent more than 10 hrs. there to find out he has a detached retina. He now needs another surgery on his eye. ASAP the drs. said. Well the little problem is his last surgery the dr. told me because of his health problems he shouldn't ever get put under again. So hopefully the drs. can do this surgery only by a local. Then there is the matter of he takes a blood thinner. U r supposed to quit taking blood thinners at least 7 days prior to surgery. I didn't mention I also have 2 other daughters who have health problems. R we ever going to get a break? How am I ever going to get over this flair? Things aren't looking up for us. VENTING AGAIN......
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