I have been with my boyfriend for 1 year and a half. He has only worked 5months of this time. He is 25 and only has 2-3 years of work experience. I love him and we often talk about getting married and having a family. He has been bed ridden about 4 times since we've been together for about 2 months at a time. The problem is is that when ever he starts feeling better again I feel like he starts slacking off eating things he knows he can't a little here and a little there and then he will go out and drink not once but 3 times in one week. I feel like this puts him back to bed again. And also when he starts to feel better he doesn't do anything to contribute monetarily. I simple asked him to get foodstamps and medicaid for himself a year ago and he still hasn't done it. I feel like he is lazy. Am I wrong for feeling this way. I don't know what kind of life I can have with him if he can't even manage to get himself medicaid or foodstamps. He has never lived on his own and still relies on his mother.
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