ok so my dad and I have not been very close from the start. It has been like this since I was in elementary school and so far nothing has changed. I don't see him or talk to him that much, maybe once or three times a month. Every time we talk or when we are in the same room he always has something negative to say, or we end up arguing over something to the point were I can't deal with it anymore and I just have to leave. Even though after all the things we have gone through, he is still my dad and I feel that when I come out that he should be one of the top five people on the list when I start telling everyone. The problem is that this is a guy who is very strict and does not think about what he is going to say, he just says it with out thinking about what the other person feels. He has even told me that he is a business man and has no time for feelings. Even when I went to therapy the therapist at the end when my dad left, said that she too was scared of him. I have a feeling that when I tell him that he will disown me, he is that kind of a person. I needs some ideas on how to approach this, anything will help. Thanks
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