Coming Out Support Group

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Should I COME OUT?

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God, I know I am gay/bi and I really love men, everything about them. But, I really am scared about coming out to my mom, dad, and sister. Would they hate me? Or would they just be in shock?
Please help!
WHAT SHOULD I DO?
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listen, im 19 and only just come out after finding my true self. i was in the same boat as you and have only come out to one of my sisters, like you. and my mum and dad. first i thought they would got ballistic because of hurtful things said during when i was younger, but when i told my sister, which i wud advise you to do first, she went and told my mum anyways, (never trust sisters lol) and then my mum approached me and was really cool about it, sooner or lately it got round in work etc... and everyone is fine about it because issues arent made. i can only tell you from my experience but i think you should tell your sister first as it will be easier and then, like mine, she may let it go slightly to your parents. the thing is, when my mum told me what my sister told her, she said it ws nothin to be ashamed off, act cool and just say, 'oh no i know it isnt' and then just drop it. bring something up later that week and everything will run fine lol. hope iv helped, let me know how you get on. jamie
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k jordan listen up!!!
i came out when i was 16 years old to my parents .well when i tried to hide the more i killed me to lie to them about myself.then when i told them that i was gay my mother and sister were not shocked at all they kind of figured it out. Btu wat really took the most out of me was convincing me father . But they all excepted who i really iam. So to you i have to say that when you are ready you can tell them but first talk to your mother or sister but they always have a senn of these things.. GOOOD LUCK NOW!!!! take my story as an example of family love kk
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