Coming Out Support Group
This community is dedicated to the challenges that gay men and lesbian women face, both between the partners in a relationship and from other influences (family, society, etc.). Find support and talk to others who may be facing the same challenges, and share your experience.
So, after a good decade of struggling with my sexuality, I am finally comfortable and happy with the fact that I am a lesbian. I don't care if I was born that way or if I was made that way, but that's what I am.
For the past five years, I've been thinking I don't want to be in a relationship (with a man) and I don't want to get married (to a man) and I don't want to have children (with a man).
When I finally accepted the fact that I'm gay a few nights ago... Well, since then, all I can think about is being in a relationship with a woman, being married to a woman, having children with a woman.
I've had a screwed up life. Sexual abuse, bipolar disorder, all sorts of weird diseases (I once had rocky mountain spotted fever and a staff infection at the SAME TIME), and now, on top of it all, I am gay. It's really just epic hilarity at this point.
So I'm going to start living as a gay woman.
As for coming out, I'm going to come out to one more friend, and then no one else needs to know until I have someone important enough in my life to start introducing to my circle of friends and family. Until then, I will be perfectly content being closeted.
For the past five years, I've been thinking I don't want to be in a relationship (with a man) and I don't want to get married (to a man) and I don't want to have children (with a man).
When I finally accepted the fact that I'm gay a few nights ago... Well, since then, all I can think about is being in a relationship with a woman, being married to a woman, having children with a woman.
I've had a screwed up life. Sexual abuse, bipolar disorder, all sorts of weird diseases (I once had rocky mountain spotted fever and a staff infection at the SAME TIME), and now, on top of it all, I am gay. It's really just epic hilarity at this point.
So I'm going to start living as a gay woman.
As for coming out, I'm going to come out to one more friend, and then no one else needs to know until I have someone important enough in my life to start introducing to my circle of friends and family. Until then, I will be perfectly content being closeted.
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
Lots of love,
Mahadra