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Coming out to my mom

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I'm 14 and in the past month or 2 I have been becoming more and more thinking that I am bisexual. I've been thinking I was for the last few years though. My mom is also Bisexual. But for some reason i am having trouble coming out to her. How should I do it? She will be the first person I come out to. A few years ago I came out to one of my best friends. we're mortal enemy's now and she started a rumor that i was a lesbian. So that MIGHT be y it is hard to come out. So how should i tell my mom
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wow.

you sound just like me.
the same friend situation and i also dont know how to come out to my mom.

i know its really hard.

but i think that you should just sit her down or ask her to go to lunch with you. just get her alone and tell her that you have something to tell her and that is hard for you. and then just say it. you know that she will understand.
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I think you are one of those lucky few that you have a family member truly understand your feelings-and as for the rumor that your just a straight lesbian I wouldn't worry too much-after all you are in to girls as well so in a sense it is a half truth-you saying you are also into guys will just be filling in what that friend left out
Dante~
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it sounds like me 2 although i havnt quite told her yet i freak out pretty much everytime i think about saying it
although u r extremly lucky 2 hav sum1 in your family that knows how it is
i was thinking just going 4 a walk, or wen u 2 r alone i find it easier 2 talk wen da lights out say wen ur going 2 sleep or sumthing
well wen u do i hope it goes really well 4 u!!!
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Im bi and 15 too!! hey so i havent come out 2 my mom yet either. shes straight but yea so talk to me it would really help. PLZ!!! thanx
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