Last Saturday in a marriage counseling session, I told my wife of 35 years that I had had an affair with a younger man for the last 3 years. I am 58 years old and my wife and I have always been very close and intimate. This has devastated her and me. I was asked to move out and she is filing for divorce. Children are grown and accepting this fact. My biggest issues are: Am I gay? Am I bisexual? Who the hell am I anyway? How do I lessen the pain for my wife? How do I find out what to do next? Been searching the internet and found this group. I hope someone out there can help. Thanks.
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