
Coming Out Support Group
This community is dedicated to the challenges that gay men and lesbian women face, both between the partners in a relationship and from other influences (family, society, etc.). Find support and talk to others who may be facing the same challenges, and share your experience.

deleted_user
i've known i was gay since i was 13. now i'm 15 and i want a boyfriend, i want to have sex but no one knows i'm gay, i want to come out but the only person that will understand is my mom, i think she will be over the moon, if i do come out i will get bullied by my class mates. i want to meet a boy and go out and have sex i'm so frustrated i'm desperate!!
Posts You May Be Interested In
-
theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
-
I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
As for your mom if you think she'd be fine with it then tell her! You need to build up a support structure before you can start coming out to everyone.
As for being bullied...just stand up for yourself. Always walk with a friend and if they start something then you have a witness that you didn't provoke them. Let them get themselves in trouble. I know that when I came out my school (although small and out in the sticks of Good old West Virginia) was very accepting of it. It was the exact opposite of what I thought it would be...lucky for me I guess...
Just promise me one thing! DO NOT GO OUT AND HAVE SEX WITH A RANDOM PERSON! STDs are real and more people have them than you think! I have a friend that thought that he'd be fine and he has AIDS now. TRUE STORY ok? Your first time needs to be with someone that you trust and have feelings for...Otherwise you are cheapening the experience for yourself. Hold off till you find a good guy and make it truly a nigh to remember.
Don't be desperate. When's the last time you hears someone say that being desperate was attractive? It's not. Just be confident and try to be content with who you are, and someone will find that attractive.
Dante~
Sorry for the long reply but there were many different possible subjects that could happen and I wanted to be good enough to make you aware of all the things that could happen.
Dante~
The trouble is, I'm also desperate to come out and have a boyfriend. I know getting bullied by your classmates, because people at my school are really brutal to gays.
The difference is, I know that having sex at our age isn't good. Just think about it- having sex can be very good I presume, but reputation is at stake.
I know you're gagging for it, but just think about the long-term effects. Find a boyfriend, take it slow and you've got to at least wait until you're positive you've thought about it thoroughly before you have sex because you might wish you'd saved it.
At least your mum will be happy with you being gay- mine would probably kill me!