
Coming Out Support Group
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Okay, this is a question for the lesbians in this group (but guys can answer too, if it applies to them).
When you first really accepted that you were gay, and I mean just finally gave in and grabbed hold of it with everything you had, did you suddenly get really emotional and start finding EVERY woman you saw just absolutely gorgeous?
I can't see a woman without wanting to kiss her. I'm so happy and so sad all at the same time. It's just this overwhelming peace. I feel innocent again for the first time in years.
When you first really accepted that you were gay, and I mean just finally gave in and grabbed hold of it with everything you had, did you suddenly get really emotional and start finding EVERY woman you saw just absolutely gorgeous?
I can't see a woman without wanting to kiss her. I'm so happy and so sad all at the same time. It's just this overwhelming peace. I feel innocent again for the first time in years.
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ahem.
I was SO repressed, that when I finally accepted that I was gay and allowed myself permission to BE gay I more or less exploded. I think of it as my slut stage, (which I understand, is not the same thing you are describing).
For me it was also, I think, a function of being 24 and finally understanding that "that restless feeling" meant I was horny and now I knew what I could do about it.
In retrospect, I think it's nothing short of a miracle that I'm still alive - had I come out in some coastal city rather than the midwest (we're talking early 80's, at the beginning of the Plague) I think I would have died of AIDS by now.
So yes, I can relate, but would just like to add the cautionary note that while you celebrate the joyousness of your sexuality and the fullness of your being that you do not let it cloud your judgment about practicing unsafe sex.
peace,
Brian
Innocence is never a bad thing
it was a little over a year ago and i just wanted to embrace it and call it out and i was just so happy and i felt like i was myself again.
and i found myself looking at every woman that came my way.
and i found almost every one i looked at extremely hott
It's calming down a little bit. I'm a naturally introspective person so I don't normally bother looking at other people. So now it's gotten to if a girl gets into my line of sight.
I'm officially out on my college campus. I was talking about it openly with a friend. We were talking about marriage and having children (we're both bipolar), and I just casually said, "Well, I don't think it would be a good idea for me to have a baby, so my wife would have to."
She didn't bat an eye, she just laughed. It was so awesome.
but forget that now, YES, I just wanna hug all of them. Fun!
Parents suck.
Anybody ready to go on the hunt? :p