I am a senior biology student at the UofO. My life revolves around school and I am fast approaching graduate school. My heart belongs in biology. I want to do research, including field work. This inevitably will take me out of state for graduate school. I dont mind. In fact, I have been living in my town since I was born and am anxious to experience new places. But my boyfriend is a few months away from becoming a police officer in my hometown, and he has told me that if he gets the job, he is staying put until he retires! Although I am feeling claustrophobic here, I love him so much and I really dont want to break up with him. What's more important, career or love/possibly future happy marriage? I could go to graduate school here, but that is so uncommon that someone stays at the same school they went for undergrad to do grad school. In fact, I have heard it doesn't look very good. What should I do? Although I am not graduating until 2009, I feel that the longer I am with him, the harder it will be to break it off (if I absolutely had to), but breaking up now seems so stupid if its over something that isn't even going to be a problem for another 2 years. Especially since I am happy with our relationship right now. What should I do? Now and in the future?
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