I haven't decided what to do about John...he blew off the plans we made, no phone call/text/e-mail. No response to the two calls I made to him. I was supposed to pick him up, go to the bank for his money???, home for lunch and to help me. I've talked to him until I'm blue in the face and words don't do dittily squat.
So Mean Mom Hat on, Im going to make plans for him to come over and just not show up, no phone call, and if he calls, no answer...it's the only way I can think of to 'get him to understand' what he does to me, is I do back to him??? More important it's not getting back at him, I feel used and my feelings are hurt...maybe if I don't show up he will 'get it'.
Being blown off when I've asked him to help me...this is the 'second' time for the same request of help...it's just moving two light weight chairs upstairs and a small light weight two set chair...porch furniture...maybe 15 minutes tops!
atm, can't think of another way to get through to him...
I will not be calling him again, nor e-mail until I hear from him...who knows how long that will be??? shit
*disclaimer: I posted this to another group, but I think it may be more suitable in this one*I cannot tell you how excited I am to find this site. It's hard to deal with difficult family members as it is, but it's especially hard when all your friends and other family members are either tired of hearing about it, or don't get it. So, long story short, my mother drives me nuts. She's extremely...
Does anyone read or want the ACA dailies?i wont put them on if no one is interested.So much of our stuff is from our upbringingand childhood. Many people dont have aclue how deep it runs and what havoc itplays on us still as adults.