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WHO IS YOUR ROLE MODEL?

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You know if i could choose to be anyone! i wud be Jennifer Lopez!! cus of her looks, beauty, personality in success!! i'd die to have her beauty!! id be a sex goddessss!!! i know im going through a really tough time, of trying to find out who i am, dealing with a breakup, parents and wotever i have to deal with. its really hard!! im gona try and see if i can get some clothes to dress like her, be like her!!! just to enhance the person i am....

whos your role model and y??
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Once again, why her? Find out what you like and don't like. You are the most and important person in your life. To think that Jennifer Lopez is perfect is a fantasy. Look at her life from an objective perspective. You are no less than any one on the face of this earth. Also, she is not a sex goddess, but I think you are attracted to what you perceive as her level of confidence. Find out who you are and what you want out of life for yourself and no one else. Do it just because you love yourself enough to do it.
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I agree with faith, finding you is imperative. Although I do have a little to offer of what other's whom I consider wise, have shared with me...."Fake it till you make it". I have always wanted to be Olivia Newton Jon or Meg Ryan, there's nothing wrong with following another successful, talented person's character traits. We must not try to re-invent the wheel, perse. It's not if but WHEN we are willing to do what another has done that we FIND out who WE really are and what we are capable of or not. *Hugs*
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Now that I have been in Recovery for awhile I would choose me as my own role model.

until you are comfortable with who you are you can dress like JLo all you like but you will still not find the happiness you are looking for. When you are comfortable with who you are is when you will find the happiness you are looking for.

My best to you!!!
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Yes, I need to learn to love myself and become my own role model, but I would like to have J Lo's body!!! LOL
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LOL...I would rather have her money ")
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Rhonda, I'm with ya on the money!! And I definitely agree with the other responses here... I don't look in the mirror and wish I looked or acted like anyone else... I'm me... pure and simple... If I don't like what I see in the mirror, than I start changing what I don't like... And I don't mean just physically either...
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