My son has recently gotten out of prision (approx. 60 days ago). He has spent the last 60 days drinking and working when he can. He is struggling to make it but doesnt want to do it the right way. He thinks drinking and partying is ok. He called the other day and said he needs a place to stay. I know that I cant let him stay with me because I will probably end up in a co-dependent relationship again. I left our home 3 yrs ago when my husband (now ex) and son's drug addiction was too much for me. I had a hard time getting my life to where it is now and I never want to go back. Am I wrong for not letting him stay with me? Am I being selfish (that's what he thinks)?
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